MHL...funny you should mention me not slipping back into my old self as I have found myself doing that a couple of times...so far, I have been able to recognize when I am doing that and change my way of thinking/actions.
As for MC...I googled pro mc's in my state and it came up with 2! (they must be the only ones registered with this particular group)...the good thing is that one is in the town that my H works in so would be very handy! It also gave a list of questions to ask a potential MC to see if you are comfortable with them or not!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing