IMO, it sounds like you have a good perspective on things.
Originally Posted By: kermitdfrog
jbnati, I do pray for God's will. The confusion comes from the fact that marriage restoration IS God's will, yet it doesn't always happen. In those cases, I feel like God will help us to thrive in spite of our pain. God doesn't ever waste pain.
Amen. I agree totally. I think this is where faith comes into play. I hope you are feeling closer to God now than when this all started. Who knows? He may be equipping you to be a stronger woman and you will be able to help others. You never know.
I feel like we're in a similar boat here. Know that I am praying for you.