WAW, Filing as Fast as Possible

[aeolianchaos]

Great weekend visiting with Sister and BIL. Got a lot of walking around in and had some great conversation.

Definitely appreciated having visitors around.

Haven't heard from W in 9 days. Wondering if I should extend any communication to her about some logistical things - she had expressed interest in sharing something w/ me (produce subscription -- way too much for 1 person) but then never followed up on it after that. I was considering contacting her about it, but not sure if that will work for or against me.

She asked me to let her know when I decide if I'm keeping the apartment, as she still would like it and it has most of her stuff in it still. I'm leaning strongly towards moving out - its too big for one person. So, there is that too.

Any thoughts? I think, because of the speed at which she filed for D, I defaulted to going very dark very quickly. Sometimes I wonder if she isn't also 'going dark' because she thinks she is 'supposed to give me space' - as she alluded to when she claimed 'I'm trying to make this easy for you.'