Update:
There isn't much of an update really. I have decided to send the birthday present and a note to my daughter. And then to back way off. Won't be easy for me, but it seems the right thing to do.

Later,

AJ


"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
Put the glass down...
"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."