Greatly appreciate some thoughts, comments and assistance on a suitable reply to the email below which I received from W this morning. I will reply tomorrow.

I made sure I was out yesterday when she came to collect kids........


Hi

Hope your well? I have heard you all had a fun packed weekend and brothers party was really good - did you enjoy yourself? The pics look good!!

Just a couple of things I wanted to update you on as you were not around yesterday:

D14 had her dentist appt this morning and it was fine, her next appt is xxx but the kids are with me that week so will let you know. Both kids are due a routine dental appt in Aug but I will sort this out and let you know when it is.

S12 is still under the hospital but could you do me a favour and look for his letters as I need to chase his next appt.

Just a quick reminder we discussed changing some weekend's around, I will drop the kids off on Friday 29/07 in the morning as it's the hen weekend, however I know you wanted me to have the kids over weekend 05/08 so I will pick them up on the Friday if that's ok? Have you planned anything nice?

Also weekend of the 12/08 again this has been arranged however if you want me to have the kids over weekend 20/08 I can so its just a straight swap!

Are you going bowling next Tuesday? If so can I come along I have been doing a lot of thinking and maybe it would be nice to show the kids we can get on:)

And one last thing I am very concerned with Lewis and him refusing to come to mine - do you know a reason for this? I will be sorting out Sky this week to get internet but just feel there is more to it - has he said anything to you?

Well I think that's it!!!!!

Speak soon


Don't know what pics W is on about, must have been what D14 took!

The 12/08 was not a weekend, it was just a Friday night, so will think about that

Not sure now with the bowling, friends have said this is my time with the kids and an activity I do with them, where as this could be an opportunity to show the new me, what she is missing and what a new R could be like. But the other side of me says she has made her choice and has been quite clear!

Regarding S12 not going round, I have told her some of the reasons, but not all. S12 does not feel comfortable and feels left out (his words), plus the shouting and arguing and the way W treats both kids generally.


Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more