For the sake of this discussion, I wanted to ask the following:

Is there anything your wayward/MLC spouse could do, or any effect upon your emotional well-being, or any effect upon your children (if applicable to your sitch), that would make you reconsider your "stand-at-all-costs" position?

I'm curious if this "standing" thing is completely unconditional, or if there are ANY boundaries that you would consider.


Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)