I am going to bed and go into the bedroom I am going to sleep in and my W and D are in there hanging out and talking about getting a new kitten and what to name it. My W still wants us to act like a family when it works for her. That is why I think she is having a MLC or is at the very least jumping the gun on wanting to end our marriage. I didn't say anything other than help with the picking out of the name. Yes, my W did ask if it was okay to get a new kitten and I said yes.
I am trying to show I care about her and of course my D. I am just waiting this all out. I feel in my heart that she will come out of all of this.
I think she is following her parents example and she is going to find out it will not work for her. Mainly because I am not her father and she is not her mother. Also, I play a much more active role in my D's life than my W 's father did with her. I feel I am more committed to my marriage than my FIL.
I'm just rambling. I have to get it off my chest somewhere and no place better than here.
