I am willing to wait. I feel my W is my soul mate.
Some of the 180s I have done was to start taking care of myself. I have lost 35 pounds and watch what I eat. I found a job and became a provider for my family. I have also started following the rules by limiting when and where I am available. I also have started seeing a IC. I am also working on my art. I like to create things on paper with different media. I am sharing that love with my very artistic D. Between that and my D I should stay pretty busy.