not to quibble but you say you've been married to your w for 13 years so
of course you hinged your happiness on her and now have to get used to not doing so.
I've been m to h for 30 years.
I never "hinged my happiness" on him. How unhealthy and unfair that would be of me to do to him.
How burdensome.
Do you get what I mean?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
