I love 25's response! That was fantastic!

Originally Posted By: Johnnieno1
I won't give up on that until it is done, done.


That's awesome! Otherwise, being here would be moot...

How you plan on still "being in", and the ACTIONS that will SHOW your W that you have a life with or without her will be what she notices.

If there will ever be a time that she would make a full on decision, it will be knowing that you truly are moving on.

And the beautiful thing is, she will KNOW that it is not a tactic. She will KNOW that you are being "real" and she may or may not make a decision to re-evaluate her life and move forward with you (with the work that it will take to do so).

And you will be OK moving forward... whether she joins you or not...

Originally Posted By: Johnnieno1
She has been emotionally preparing for some time now, I need more time to get there.


Exactly... that's what makes it tough for the LBS. We very often come from a position of surprise... and we trip all over ourselves just to catch up. Never mind move ahead and forward...