I finished my counseling session. It went well. He does think my W is sending mixed messages. I honestly think my W is confused and trying to find herself. Something I remembered my W told me. She said "I've spent so much time making everyone else happy and now I want to make me happy. " I don't blame her for feeling that way. She did spend a lot of time taking care of me in my depression and taking care of our D. I just wished she wouldn't want to throw away our marriage thinking it will make her happy. I have taken action to care for my depression and am taking care of me and my D. I am going to try and let her take her journey and hopefully clears up her fog and confusion.
I would appreciate any input. My W really has me confused. Please help.
