Can I "fake" GAL?

[Very Confused]

Thanks for your response. I favorited him as an anonymous user, not as myself. It let me know when his last login was. I just had a gut feeling and decided to check the dating websites. I am being intimate with my H, so I think that I deserve to know what his true intentions are. The info is out there for the world to see, so I don't really consider it pursuit. It helped me see where his head is at right now.

I know DB works. I was "bad" and contacted him via text a couple of times recently, and it doesn't work. Backing off the contact/pursuing him does not garner favorable responses. I'm figuring it out slowly but surely. Now if I could just figure out how to be patient..