glad to see you Sandi... She has not answered. She said she needed time to think, so I am respecting that, and not going to discuss it until she is ready.
The conflicting advice is from the DB board(mostly consistent) and my circle of support of trusted friends (some conflicting, most of it opposite to DB board)
As far as making the pulling away real... I am at work all week, on the weekends I like to be home with my kids, being a father. I guess it is a mental state of mind... Kinda like as if you were breaking up with an old girlfriend. Although it is counterintuitive to my goal. It is totally the behavior I get from my wife.
Sometimes I wonder if she is using DB/DR on me... Could she be trying reverse psychology on me to make me change? I don't know.
So going forward, I'm going to continue to act as if, and mentally I'm going to adopt the break up attitude... It just feels so.... Opposite...
Me 45 W 34 W.A.W. 3K. D11 S9 D6 M 12 y T 13 y Bomb drop 02/22/2011 2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011 Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011
