The BIG question I have is how else can I "pull away"?
It's in the attitude, Johnnie. You can live in the same house and be nice......even friendly at times, but if you are moving forward with or without her...that is what will be sensed by her. When it is finally real.
Until then, you will get the same advice you were given before, b/c it has not changed.
You gave your W some options, but what I haven't read is her answer. Did she give you one?
You said you have received conflicting advise. Exactly what has been confusing? Maybe we can help.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
