Snodderly, thank you. This explanation fits my H to a tee.
Even after almost 2 years of being gone, he is still miserable and I am to blame. I don't understand why as he got what he wanted with ow.
You would think since this life is so much better than the one we had together, he would willingly give up what the state says is my share. No, it just keeps refreshing his anger and he continues to blame me for choices he made.
It does not bother me as it once did. I am curious why he has not pushed the D along as he filed in Dec. '10. I have heard nothing since I received the papers in Jan. '11.
Mind reading here, but I think it may have to do with just not wanting to have to pay the amount that the state says he will have to.
I will do nothing to move his D along. That rests squarely on his shoulders. I do expect to hear something at some point, but it does not keep me from moving forward.
