My W left for the gym this morning, and sent me this note...


"On 2011-07-10, at 7:48 AM, wifesname@yahoo.com wrote:

It is too nice for gym so I am at a nice park going for a nice big walk and maybe jog too.
If (Son) wants to go play at (cousins) later I can drive him.
(W)

My reply:

That would be a good opportunity to think about things too.

Sent from my iPad"

Is this pushing her?

All I hear is "I know that on your way to church you will drive by the gym, and won't see my car there, so I have to cover my ass so that I can go see OM"...

I feel like she is lying to me more... Because she would never send this message otherwise. She is only sending it now because she knows that otherwise I will have questions for her when she gets home.

What I really wanted to send back to her reads "if you are going to see him, don't bother coming back home. I don't want you here anymore."

I have no trust of her anymore. How should I handle this?


Im in turmoil...


Me 45 W 34 W.A.W.
3K. D11 S9 D6
M 12 y T 13 y
Bomb drop 02/22/2011
2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011
Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011