hey guys, thanks for the great posts; I AM EXHAUSTED. went to other town yesterday to get tire changed on bike, They gave me crap for having no tread in middle tire. Said i was riding dangerously. i said thats nothing compared to the life ive been leadin.
drove to catch ferry on bike.
9 this is a VERY disappointing update.
Can't you crash your bike?
Or maybe the ferry sinks or catches on fire?
I need something!
Come on!
BITS
Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
stopped at campsite to see W and boys. HAVE to go south to see sick parents and dying uncle (my fav uncle),
Wife waved me down at campsite with enthusiasm when were a couple. Had same feel. BTW, she told me earlier in the day that we need to go slow and that OW , maybe u shouldnt cut loose
M> so u want me to continue to date OW
W; im just sooo effd , what if we cant recoc or arewnt willin to try. Are you?
M: u know the answer to that. i want to try but its going ot b alot of w ork and time. WHY
W; u said yesterday u would have to see.\\
M: i just dont regrets down the road> i see how my dad lived his life and has spent last 20 yearsw in deep regret. i dont want that to happen to either of us
W: We c\nt jump into the fire like last time
M: i know'
W: what if neither of us wants to try?
M: lets not talk abou this now/\
She starta to cry, i move in for hug, she says she doesnt wamt one right now.
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she pulls away, my heart sinks a little but i understand
w: R U MAD
M; no, uve been through alot, im not upset.
W: im an eff up. ive ruined sooo many people's lives.
honestly ia falling asleep as i type, need nap will finis later
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If I may 9lives. I was taught this recently and perhaps you may benefit?
Hugs can be giving as well as taking. Ever been in a situation where someone wanted to hug you and you thought " I can't stand to be touched, I've had enough!" That's when a hug takes from you.
Next time you feel the need to hug. Ask. People want to be touched only with their permission, especially here in North America. Be very clear that the hug you offer is one of giving, not taking.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
If I may 9lives. I was taught this recently and perhaps you may benefit?
Hugs can be giving as well as taking. Ever been in a situation where someone wanted to hug you and you thought " I can't stand to be touched, I've had enough!" That's when a hug takes from you.
Next time you feel the need to hug. Ask. People want to be touched only with their permission, especially here in North America. Be very clear that the hug you offer is one of giving, not taking.
nine, i would have done the same (move in for a hug) especially when someone you care for is hurt and crying.....i do understand about taking a hug.....and it's a good point, but i think that basic human instinct tells us to comfort those that are in need
Thanks for the compliment Brian. I'm glad I can help in some small way.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
