Thanks everyone for your feedback. It sounds like I should keep communication if he reaches out again (haven't heard from him in a couple of days, but he is at his folks). %0
Me: 35 Him: 43 Together: 19 1/2 years 1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011 2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011 He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011 He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011