First, of all, I can understand your curiousity about his dating profile. But what kind of good outcome did you anticipate would come out of "favoriting" him? Nothing go could have come out of it and nothing good came from it. That should be a huge lesson to you about monitoring your actions and limiting your contact/pursuit of him.
Read the MWD books and try to understand what the advice is trying to do. It is trying to change the dynamic (both 180's and GAL and DB'ing) between you) so that he has to re-evaluate his relationship with you and change how he treats you. If you are not happy with the status quo, then you need to change the dynamic in your relationship.
You can not force him to make changes you want. Let me repeat that, you can not force him to do things that you want him to do. What you can do is change yourself so you are more desirable to him. And you can change the way the two of you interact so that he has to treat and approach you differently. If you are lucky (and it doesn't always happen), he will think about how he needs to change the way he treats you and decide that he wants to do things that will improve the relationship. If so, it will be his choice and not yours. The best you can do if that happens is reinforce his positive actions.
Understand that you have a limited set of things you can do. Then do them. Hope and pray that your spouse thinks about what they are doing and decides that the changes you creating in their life warrant them to improve the way they treat you, then if you start to be treated better by your spouse, reinforce their positive behavior. Otherwise, DO NOTHING to pursue them.
Read the MWD books, they have lots of ideas that work and work often.
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.
