Now, please understand that I am not a fool. I see the reality and it is that unless something drastically changes, he will divorce me. But I am hoping and praying, Which brings me to my next point.
I don't ever want to force my belief on anyone else. I can only share what I feel. And I do believe prayer can change people's hearts. And I have been told this by pastors and our biblical counselor. I believe God wants my marriage, and all others, restored. I believe he is speaking to my H. Having said that, my H has a choice to make. If he chooses not to listen to God, and divorces me, than I believe God will use that for good. In fact, I believe that is precisely the great thing about DB. No matter the outcome of my marriage, I have absolutely grown as a person. So many people have commented on how much I have changed and grown. Regardless of what H does, that is definitely good. And a blessing.
Kermit, I think this is a good perspective. From my observations and IMO, if he chooses not to listen to God, he will follow a difficult road and he will lose out on the blessings. But that may be exactly what your H needs to grow.
Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
Perhaps it's best to ask God for the strength & faith to handle whatever comes, rather than praying for a specific result or outcome.
Just a thought.
Yes, I think this is a good suggestion. You may want to pray for His will do be done and your acceptance of His will and for the wisdom to see his purpose in all of this.
