I don't see how the books are going to hurt you if they help you understand things
the issue is what? You'll confuse/diffuse approaches? Well, don't. I mean, read to understand IF IT HELPS YOU...
is it more an obsessive thing to do? Maybe and that's not great. BUT if it keeps you from hounding HER in order to understand...then maybe it's alright.
It's how you handle what you learn that matters...
but don't read ANY book with the idea that there is some "Secret" to all this. God knows we wish there were.
DBing will save you, at the very least. Give it a solid try and add TIME to that...and if you are becoming the man you were meant to be,
then you have to leave the results up to God.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
