Thank you Virginia for your post. I will respond shortly.

But for now I'm just a little too mad to be clear.

H was once again late in picking up S3. Didn't apologise. Turned up an hour late. I had organised to meet a friend and was quite inconvenienced. I was a little annoyed when he turned up. And of course he had to put the baby seat in the car again as he takes it out whenever OW is in there. Makes me so mad that he does this. I mean why does he need to take it out when there is only two of them in the car. OW probably doesn't like the reminder of my son.

Anyway, after they leave I too head off. Then half an hour later I receive a text from H:
"Sorry I was late. I hope you didn't miss anything important. I think we need to discuss travel arrangements. I don't think it is fair I have to make both trips. It would be good if you could pick him up once in a while. Anyway have a nice weekend"

WTF!!! He's complaining because he has to pick up his son and drop him back home!? WTF!!! He sees him twice a week at max and from next week it will only be once a week and he's complaining.

Talk about passive aggresive behaviour. I'm sorry followed by a kick in the head followed by have a nice day!?

I'm so mad!!!! Grrrrr


W - 31
H - 33
Married - 7 years
Together - 10 yrs
Kids - S 3yrs old
Separated - 27/03/11
OW - 10/04/11