Should I use the 7 steps for ending my WAW affair?
It's been 6 days now. She has not even approached the subject.
How long do I give her to "think about it"?
Should I force the issue and set my boundaries, which are to end the affair permanently and be accountable or, get out and leave everything behind for the OM?
This living in limbo is not living. I shouldn't have to feel sick to my stomach every time she goes out.
Should I ask her for her decision first? or assume that because she hasn't spoken to me about it, she is just stalling, so that she can continue to live here and get some on the side?
Are the steps different because she is a WAW?
Do the 7 steps ? 1. gather evidence (done) 2. Confront (done) 3. Disclose (partially done in confidence with WAW sister) 4. Exposure 5. Carrot and stick (also known as divorce remedy) (working on it) 7. Legal Separation
This affair sh!t is getting old fast.
Me 45 W 34 W.A.W. 3K. D11 S9 D6 M 12 y T 13 y Bomb drop 02/22/2011 2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011 Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011
