1) til if and when he SAYS he wants back in, why change anything you are doing?
2) it's natural and very common for the LBSer to sort of become the MLCer when the WAS wants back in. We've been through so much, WE have changed.
Been there, done that. I had to really assess things when h wanted back in. I had come to see that life without h was not so bad. In fact I GAL pretty well.
I was happy and knew I would be, with or without h. [b] That knowledge was freeing and empowering.[/b]
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
