Ok. That makes absolute perfect sense Cadet. Thank you for responding.

Lorie, thank you too. I've heard similar complaints from my W. You know what though? Even though some of the complaints were valid, I KNOW I was a good husband. I am not the evil, violent, controlling, manipulative person she has made me out to be. I am not only a good husband, but also a good person.

Take care.

Tad

Currently:
M 57 XW 58
Sons 39,34,32,30

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13