I think we all relate and listen to God in many ways, I too feel God asking me to have patience and to stand for my marriage. I believe He will restore my marriage, when I and H is ready. I too would not want to be in a R as H is now, and I believe my separation from H is God's telling me I would not have been strong enough to live with him during his MLC crisis, but I am strong enough to live without him until he comes out of the tunnel. I try everyday to live as though he is not coming back, because it allows me to live a life that glorifies God and all he has to offer. I don't need a man to live the life God has created for me, I only need God to do that and when God has made the changes in my H I too will be ready for that challenge.
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.