Hi WCW! I am doing very well, thanks. I went for my oncologist appt yesterday, and the MRI shows the tumor is still gone. What a relief! So, I feel I can plan for the next year, while still living in the now, each day as it comes.
As for H ... he is away at the moment, and coming home tomorrow morning. My S24 accompanied me to the doc, in case I needed a shoulder. Thankfully, I did not except to hug and be thankful for prayers answered. I have no idea what H intends ... he has been cheerful around me, and continues to keep in contact when he is away.
I still have to find a lawyer, and now is the time after the melancholy leading up to the appointment yesterday. I wasn't depressed, but feeling down in that, I sure didn't want to go through all the tests, hospital, ops, chemo, etc. that goes with a re-emergence of cancer. Ugh! I don't even know what more they can do if it does come back, but I have heard of people having multiple operations with this particular type of tumor.
Anyway, I don't have to worry now ... just move on with my life again.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
So very glad to hear your good news that the tumor has not come back!
Unless your H does something to push or drive the D, don't exhaust yourself over it. Just keep working on what you need to do to gain your financial independence and planning your life without H. Step by step.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
