I don't need a date. I want to date. Big difference. And no, I am not that needy. I just see dating as the next possible step in GAL. I am reconsidering this position as we speak after Eric's warnings.
Adultery? Sorry, it's a no fault state. None of this matters. There are no grounds for divorce here other an irreconcilable differences. Wish adultery did matter, as it would have given me a much better position in the D filing due to my W's affair. So you see it's a free-for-all here in the West Coast! Do as you please, no repercussions.
As for waiting 21 months to date after my possible divorce, I will not put timelines on anything. I will just live my life and see what comes my way. Getting married again is another matter. Now that can wait!
Timelines on MLC? With regard to my W's process, I'm not even going to guess at that one. If three years is short, then we will not likely survive as a couple. She will get her D. Sorry to say, but I will not be one of these standing for my X years after the D is done. I don't judge those that do, it is just not who I am and how I see my life in the future without my W.
