Well H just called me to tell me about the meeting. His boss does want him to do the TDY in DC for 6 months. It is a great opportunity for his career but a disaster for us in my opinion. He was very excited about it and I did not voice any negative feelings when he was telling me about it. I simply asked what this meant for the kids and me if it was a short term placement. He said they would not pay for a house or apartment for short term placements and would probably put him up in a long term type hotel placement. I said that it would be really hard on the kids ( ages 5 and 4). He said he could fly home often since tickets were cheap and we could come up during school breaks like fall break. That was about all we had time to talk about since he was headed to another meeting.
I am just so lost as what to do at this point. The thought of him in the same city as ow kills me. I know in my heart they will begin the A again given the chance. If I tell him not to go he will resent me and that will not help our situation. I just don't know what to do. Please someone give me some advice!!!
