Is filing for D a 180?

[luvmyhubby]

Today I am doing good.. I havent had any R talk in almost 2 weeks since he told me he wanted a D. I think he is getting curious becuase he keeps messing up about picking up the kids etc.. He doesnt show up on time and it makes me late for work but I dont gripe or anything I just take care of the kids.

I will call him to talk about the kids and he acts like he is getting prepared to talk about our R. Then I dont i only mention the kids etc.. He seems surprised..

I have an appt with a realtor which i told him about so hopefully I can get my house sold. This will remove the connection between my mom and also him having to pay the house note.
So I can make choices for me and not be stuck.. It benefits him to have me stuck i believe.. Our conversations seem cordial but they have been always so i am just living for me and the kids.

I cant read too much into his responses..