You dont feel that her bing here will help the situation?
Only if she is there for the right reasons...both yours and hers.
Getting them back at any cost, isn't usually worth the cost.
If you have dettached without her around, how are you going to feel if she comes back but can still see the OM? And she comes home at...4 am? Or not until the following day?
It might be huge for the kids, but weigh in stability...real stablity into the equation.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
