Miscommunication. I nvere said or meant that dating was a ploy. "where" you dated was.
That you were going to that place, to me, showed what was more important than the actual dating. The date was secondary to the message you wanted to impart. (To me, doesn't mean I am right)
I think I am upsetting you, and that is not my intent. This MLC crap is a long process, in order to give yourself the best chance at making it through some old notions must be challenged.
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It's always good to keep one's options open (i.e. "Plan B" - J3B).
If that's how you took it. ; )
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
