Things have been going along ok. No r talks, he is still not affectionate but is engaging in family activities. He emailed me to let me know he was going to be late and is helping around the house.
We even had a few short talks initiated by him about our future, moving somewhere new, our vacation in the fall.
Then yesterday he comes home from work and tells me he may have an opportunity to due a short term rotation at the pentagon. I was in shock...this is something he has wanted to do for years but the kicker is the ow lives in DC. That is the last place I want to move to even for just a year. I asked him if he would take it if they offered it and he immedialty said yes. I told him I was a little shocked he would consider it now with everything going on. I asked him if he was committed to us and he said I am here aren't I . I said that didn't answer my question. He said yes I am committed to us. I then stated that moving to where his mistress lives is a major concern for me. He then stated to you want to live in AL the rest of your life and I said no. I never said I was opposed to moving but DC concerns me greatly. I also pointed out how during the conversation he focused on only how this was a good opprotunity for him and how it would effect him. I said what about me and your two kids. He then went into how much there is to do in DC for kids. It was a very short conversation. I did not get emotional and remained calm when taling with him.
He is meeting with the boss today at 11:00 I am praying that he does not offer him this rotation and it is about some other program.
I can't imagine even picking up my life and moving with two small kids to DC at this time. I would have to give up my part-time contract work which is amazing and lose any ability to support my kids if H did decide to leave.
