The fear comes from that my wife is diagnosed bi-polar and has a history of self harm when she gets down on herself as well as low self esteem. The self harm is something we have worked on together and for the most part have curbed but I worry without me there that something will happen and she will fall back to those methods. Regardless of the factor that we are headed towards divorce I still view it as my job to make sure she's okay. Which is just another of the many reasons why the LRT has been so difficult for me aside from the obvious reasons.
