Point well taken. The location makes no sense from a logistical standpoint, if in fact I do want to keep the door open for my W. I would like to get back togeother, but certainly not with the person she has been over the last 6 months). So why mess myself over? It's always good to keep one's options open (i.e. "Plan B" - J3B).
As indiated, I don’t want revenge, and I don’t want to hide my actions from W. Part of me thinks it would be good for her to see me moving on, and the other thinks there’s no reason to rock to boat. We have been interacting positively now for almost 2 months. So it makes no sense to risk possibly further stalling her journey thru her MLC. My main motive with this date is just to get out and get some socialization and female companionship. I am also trying to gradually mentally prepare myself for an alternative future without my W.
The answer is clear. Find another spot. Explore life and have fun, but discretion in advisable to say the least.
