I copied what he wrote in his profile..I took out any identifying information.


"I'm a pretty abstract kinda guy, but I am very much a gentleman. I still open the door for all females, and if you are the type to not accept that, then move on. I am recently separated and trying to figure out what I want to do w/my whole "relationship" life. I feel like a companion is in my future...but not 100% sure. Guess I haven't found that "perfect" female for me...if she really does exist? Just really trying to find good friends w/possibly more if you're the "one." Need someone that can keep up w/my humor and wit. Not looking for a dull conversation. Looking for someone that can stimulate my mind, body, and soul. In the past, only have found to have some only please 1 or 2 of the 3. Not looking to just "hook up" b/c I'm too old for that. Just looking for a "girl next door" type. Not looking for a girl that cakes her face w/makeup and has 10 pics of herself in a bikini. I am all about classic beauty, not scantily clad women. Send me a msg if you would like to know more."

Him talking about finding the "one" breaks my heart all over again. I guess my marriage really is over.


Me: 35
H: 33
M: 3 1/2 years, together 6 years
No kids
Bomb #1: ILYBNILWY 1/25/11
Signed 6 month lease: 3/16/11
Separated: 4/2/11
I'm moving..alone: 9/27/11