Need help...don't know what to do...

[chris1102]

I had a half way decent weekend hadn't heard from the H in three weeks. Started hanging out with H's step brother and hadn't seen him in 9 years. H's step brother added H and Roommate as friends on FB and seen roommate talking trash about me on there with the knowledge I can't see it because she deleted me as a friend and blocked me months ago.

She mentioned I was pathetic, they are happy together and love each other very much. The best revenge is that there is nothing I can do about it. They are going to show me very soon.
Step brother confronted her on FB and told her it was stupid to be talking trash about me when I can't see it. SB also went on to say that he bet she had been ran through more times than the NYC marathon and stealing a roommate's husband is trashy. He also went on to say that H needed to get his nuts out of her purse and went on.

Yesterday, I get 3 missed calls from H while at work. I have 3 or 4 texts from him. He wanted me to meet up with him to talk. I met up with him after work and he talks to me for a minute. H asks if I have been hanging out with SB and I say yep. H then says he is done with the drama and I say so am I. He says he has been tired of the drama to which I say so am I. He says we tried to talk and make it work but can't. He didn't even make an attempt. Process server came up while me and H were talking and handed me the papers. I ask H if he is in a relationship with roommate he says "I am now.." He then says "go find someone else to love."

H only has verbalized he wanted to fix it but didn't go any further than that months ago. H was still living in the house with roommate this entire time and doesn't have any intentions of leaving the house.

I went to mom in law's house crying and she tries to comfort me. She then tells me that she found out Roommate posted on FB that is a month pregnant and only important people know about the baby and that is H's dad and her parents.

I have 20 days to respond to summons. H put that there are no assets and marriage is irretrievably broken. I prayed,Galed, let him innitiate contact. H was looking really rough when I seen him yesterday. I am pretty sure roommate's intentions are to marry him because she is pregnant and she gets what she wants because all her friends are either married or have kids and she was depressed about not having that.

I'm not sure if she is really pregnant or not because she feeds off of attention she receives. MIL says to tell everyone not to say anything to her on Fb and ignore her and everything will die down. H has his mind made up he wants D because its what she wants more than him.

BIL is very upset about all of this, H told me that he was going to put a restraining order on SB and if his B came back over the house with an attitude he would put one on him too. BIL is 17,I asked H you would really put a restraining order on your own brother and he said if he keeps up the attitude he will. I just shook my head, H is mad because I am talking to SB again.

At this point, I'm going to get ready for the D and I guess go through with it since I don't have any other choices. Roommate is going to get even more hostile during this process.If me and H even tried to reconcile she would have more hostility towards me than what she already does. Thanks for what advice people did give me I greatly appreciate it. I have been crying for the past three days and I don't think there is anything else I can do.