Now, i told her that she is still responsible for her own way to and from the visits. Boy did she flip out. She kinda nailed me with it too. "this is your idea for keeping our private lives private, OM is my only way to get there and we have decided not to have him near the kids".
Wow. Interesting. Are there no buses or taxis, or any other way she could catch a ride where you live? Sure it's inconvienent, but.... From my perspective which may not be the proper DB'ing one, that's her problem, not yours.
