I hear you Kaffe. It's hard not to turn off completely and walk away from their personal drama and other issues they have.

I do care if my STBX addresses his own chit. That would be so awesome. He deserves to be as mentally, emotionally and physcially integrated and happy as he can be.
It would be great for our kids too to have a fully present and engaged Dad.

It's not in my hands...that's so the hardest part. If I could will it for him, I would.

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Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.