she resonded with option #1 for now. She wont commit to the marriage. She will always love me, but she doesnt know if we can ever work things out.
So i have a long trek ahead of me. But at least she isnt saying "we are finished and there isnt a chance."
Once she is around everyday, with the changes ihave made, with the family support, you never know.
Now, i told her that she is still responsible for her own way to and from the visits. Boy did she flip out. She kinda nailed me with it too. "this is your idea for keeping our private lives private, OM is my only way to get there and we have decided not to have him near the kids".
Thankfully s13 and s15 were at my mom and dads, so they picked her up and brought her to soccer and drove her home.
