Tonight (Thurs) is the first night I have had an opportunity to have dinner with my family since Sunday. I have had very limited contact with my W until now. I noticed that she could not (or would not) make eye contact with me even though we were sitting across the table from each other.
Any thoughts?
J
unless she has lost her sight, I guess she didn't want to make eye contact...
do NOT read into this. This is part of the problem you have. Spending energy on this non behavior and NON statement by your w.
Who cares why she didn't make eye contact with you IF that's even accurate. Were you staring at her the WHOLE time? Hope not...
back off...that has to become your mantra.
Johnnie, let's be blunt b/c that may be the only thing that works
You are too obsessive and it shows. You are too possessive and it shows.
You are offering her nothing but your desparate neediness. You bring nothing to the table but that need of yours.
I don't even know if it's love b/c it sounds so desparate and unhealthy I can't tell. But we know it's not attractive to her.
So Stop it.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
