7 weeks to exH marries OW

[lea74]

Thanks.all for the input. I did realise once.we were seperated that we neede to put our M first and in fact we did. We started dating and having very flirty texting etc - it was great but inforumately.OW had already got her claws in and i didnt stand a chance. Interestingly our.church values M as priority and children are the addition to the M. I guess we forgot about that. My xH also travelled alot in his last job so it was just me and the boys alot of time. I guess we made.our own little family and he probably felt left out. Sometimes i resented it when he got back and tried to be a parent - i guess i felt that that was my job and he was intruding.
Its all great realising that now - but it doesnt fix anything as.my family is gone and he is about to start his own.