How I view this whole MLC mess is nothing really means anything until they come to you and ask to return to the family. I don't know about others, but I am through analyzing every action, interaction, and behavior. All of the assessing the ML'er is a waste of precious time where you could be focusing on positive things and moving ahead with individual goals.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11