How I view this whole MLC mess is nothing really means anything until they come to you and ask to return to the family. I don't know about others, but I am through analyzing every action, interaction, and behavior. All of the assessing the ML'er is a waste of precious time where you could be focusing on positive things and moving ahead with individual goals.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11