My WAW spoke last night to follow up on some logistical issues from our last communication/meeting. We had agreed that to defray the cost of the mortgage,I would take on roommates.
Last evening, she called and said this arrangement is unfair and she would rather let the house foreclose than contribute her share of the mortgage. Upon filing, she decided to move out and get an apartment on her own. In the current sitn, she is better off financially. I stated roommates is a consequence of her decision. We had a cordial conversation and eventually she agreed.
My GAL and 180's came up indirectly during our talk. She mentioned, "Now your doing that?" as well as some "In the future, maybe you won't be a workaholic".
We ended with her expressing that despite battling through difficult topics, it was nice catching up.
I don't know what to think. After we spoke, I was sad. I miss my W and the nearly 20 years we spent together. GAL continues, but the emotional swings of everything really hit home.
Was this a "positive" interaction?
_______________________ M: 47; W: 39 M: 4.5 yrs; T: 18 years No children Separated: 01/19/11 Wife Served Papers: 02/1/11 Wife moved: 03/05/11 Responded: 04/14/11
