DG, it does seem to just *click*, understanding DB, going dark, etc. It is empowering, isn't it? I also agree with paige that it's easier when there aren't any shared kids (though I'm sure each set misses the other stepparent).
It does get easier DG, but it takes a long time. I still have off days and it's been a year for me. When you do, just let us know (not that you haven't before:) and we'll be here for you!
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011
