Thank you for the great advice! It is so hard on the kids. We do spend a lot of time together and I am thankful I can.
I never, ever thought of it as controlling but now I can work on this on myself. So odd to me that you wouldn't want to "help" yourself!?!
Was on another forum by recommendation of another poster. NOT a good idea. Just reading but such a volatile place! NOt going back there again. I was reading on separation and divorce.
Day 10 of NC. It really is nice not to have interaction with such a mean person. Saves me a lot of heartache.
H spotted at local bar "sloppy drunk". With a guy friend. Wow. Really livin it up!! Crazy. Glad I am not involved in that right now.
