Johnnie i've been posting right behind Starksy lately, and i gotta say i agree with everything thats said. Same with 25. and all the others.
your revised apology is much better. minus the last part where you make promises. stick to the bare minimum, dont promise anything. no undying love, no heroics, no better me's.
stick to "what has happened", drop the "what will happens".
keep it as short as possible, dont leave in anything that she can twist or argue or deny.
and no flowery mushy love cards with kittens and monkeys on the front. a simple blank no picture no printed words card is the best.
and dont expect anything from this apology. chances are you wont get it. this is for your own conscience. everything is for yourself so that someday when you look back, you have no doubts that you did the right thing always.
"Wife... I apologize for how I handled myself on Sunday. If I had some time to process my thoughts and feelings first, I would have handled things much differently. I am not apologizing for having those feelings, they are genuine. JJ"
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
