7 weeks to exH marries OW

[mishka422]

Lea,

I was going to tell you the exact same thing that CTH told you about putting your M first and foremost above all else. I learned that less in DivorceCare classes and was, quite honestly, stunned! I had always learned that your children come first but if your M comes second or third then the whole family suffers including your children. WOW! My son is autistic, my elderly terminally ill mother lived with us and I made them my priority instead of my M....big mistake!

I'm glad you are feeling better about things today! When you lose the option of counseling it is very hard to find outlets for feelings that no one in your RL wants to hear about and that is one reason this board is such a blessing.

Keep coming and venting, sharing, and growing with us! We all get through this together.