The thread of life

[mishka422]

Very interesting. I'm just always curious about people's motivations.

I think it would make a big difference to me if I had planned on dating just because I don't believe in dating anyone if you are still legally M'd to someone even if they have been gone for years, but that's just me. It's some part of ingrained training in my upbringing I guess!

Wii, there are some states in the US that require a legal separation for a year before D can be filed, others that require 6 months of just living apart and then some, like mine, have ZERO requirement of any kind. A D can literally be final start to finish in less than 3 months if everyone agrees to everything. Sad that a M can be taken apart that easily.

I hope the memorial goes well this weekend. Interesting having it at a Chinese restaurant.