Did you read 25's post right above your letter? Listen to what she is trying to help with your letter. Your personality wants to say too much. I think folks here are saying to not go into details about how you felt. Maybe I'm wrong, but if you make a written apology about your reaction to her A, keep it short and don't bring in how you felt b/c that will only anger her and will look like you are pursuing. Look at 25's edited suggestions.

And, Johnnie, give yourself a little test this time. See if you can wait a while before sending the letter (apology). It's a boot-camp DR training step... wink JK

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It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!